One of my friends on facebook joined in the discussion about family and he said ' Admitting that your family is dead is much easier than dealing with the constant haunting of ghosts', I like that, really I do. So I thought I would share it. Leaving the fears for their safety and concern and confusion about what they are doing behind and moving on is healthy, nothing I did was going to put things right.
At the moment it all hurts, but it is better to hurt and heal than go on being asociated with them.